O Mother, Please Give a New Love of Confession to Us!: Thursday, October 8, 2020

 

J.M.J.


One periodically hears Catholics discuss the decline in use of the Sacrament of Penance among the Faithful since the 1960s. This claim is difficult to refute. Nevertheless, before his death Pope Saint John Paul II had referred to a welcome upsurge in the number of Confessions. This is good news and bodes well for the future.

 

The wisdom of the Church throughout the centuries has offered various tried-and-true ways to help Catholics in making a sincere Confession. There are some excellent written guides that assist the penitent in this important task. Two useful resources, which may be purchased inexpensively in bulk quantities, are: An Examination of Conscience: A Preparation for the Sacrament of Penance by Father Robert J. Altier (Leaflet Missal Company, 976 West Minnehaha Avenue, Saint Paul, Minnesota 55104; 800 328-9582), 2002; Preparation for Confession and Communion by Father Frederick L. Miller, S.T.D. (New Hope Publications, Post Office Box 10, New Hope, Kentucky 40052; 800 764-8444), 2000.

 

A “good” Confession means a worthy Confession, that is, the penitent tells the unconfessed mortal sins that he has committed. He is to do so in both kind (what they are) and number. The Church infallibly teaches that the penitent need confess within the context of the Sacrament only previously unconfessed mortal sins (that is, gravely wrong desires, thoughts, words and actions performed with sufficient reflection and full consent of the will); however, she earnestly recommends that venial sins, also, be confessed because such acknowledgment leads to self-knowledge of one’s own weakness, humility in “owning-up” to what one has done wrong and an increase in sanctifying grace. A “Devotional Confession” is the confession of venial sins.

 

The Scriptural basis for this Sacrament is clear. On the evening of Easter Sunday, the Risen Lord Jesus Christ appeared to His fearful Apostles. The Master exclaimed: “Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained.” (Saint John 20: 22b-23)

 

The Sacrament of Penance has three “parts” regarding the penitent (the one confessing) and one “part” concerning the confessor (the priest who possesses the faculty to hear Confessions and grant Absolution). For the penitent, there are: contrition (sorrow), which includes a firm purpose of amendment; confession (telling of sins); satisfaction (atonement), which occurs by way of the performance of the penance given by the confessor. For the confessor, there is the imparting of Absolution (the actual Prayer of Absolution).

 

How does one actually confess? It is vital that the penitent prepare well before approaching the Sacrament. Such preparation consists in begging the Most Blessed Trinity for wisdom and insight. A thorough examination of conscience cannot be overestimated. Often, the Ten Commandments, the Precepts of the Church, the Beatitudes or the Theological and the Cardinal Virtues prove to be a helpful foundation by which to reflect on how one is following Christ and obeying His life-giving mandates.

 

Under usual conditions, the penitent enters the confessional and kneels behind a curtain or screen so to conceal his identity. (Some confessionals today also offer the opportunity for “face-to-face” Confession.) After beginning with the Sign of the Cross, the confessor may share a passage from Sacred Scripture. Then, the penitent uses the familiar formula, “Bless/Forgive me, Father, for I have sinned. It has been __weeks/months/years since my last Confession.”

 

Next, the penitent honestly names the sins of which he is guilty. He may conclude the recital of his sins by asserting, “I am sorry for these and for all the sins of my past life.” The confessor gives some valuable counsel to the penitent, encouraging him to put his trust in God and to seek true Christian holiness. The confessor also assigns a penance that is to help repair the injustice that the penitent has caused by his sins.

 

The penitent then recites the Act of Contrition, expressing his sorrow for his sins, his genuine desire to perform the penance he was just given and his intent to avoid all the unnecessary and near occasions of sin (those persons, places, things and events) that lead to disobeying God’s unchanging law. The priest prays the formula of Absolution:

 

God, the Father of mercies, through the Death and Resurrection of His Son has reconciled the world to Himself and sent the Holy Spirit among us for the forgiveness of sins; through the ministry of the Church may God give you pardon and peace, and I absolve you from your sins, in the Name of the Father (+), and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

 

The confessor may also add, among other prayers, the Passio Domini nostri Iesu Christi:

 

May the Passion of Our Lord Jesus Christ, the intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary and of all the Saints, whatever good you do and suffering you endure, heal your sins, help you to grow in holiness, and reward you with Everlasting Life. Go in peace.

 

The penitent leaves the confessional and performs his penance as soon as possible.

 

We can maintain with absolute certainty that one who is really sorry for his sins, tells them honestly, plans to avoid sin in the future, intends to do his assigned penance and receives valid sacramental absolution from a duly authorized priest is truly forgiven of his sins. Such a realization is in itself a grace from the hand of the Lord Jesus Himself.

 

Confession has been called, with good reason, “the maker of Saints.” Father Miller wrote:

 

If you make good use and frequent use of this Sacrament, you will have peace of heart, purity of conscience and a deep union with Christ in His love for His Father and for all men and women. The grace of the Sacrament will cause you to become like Jesus, our Lord, in all you say and do! It will make you a stronger and more committed member of His Church!

 

Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, full of compassion and love, have mercy on us!

 

Sorrowful and Immaculate Heart of Mary, Mother of the Church, pray for us!

 

Saint Joseph, Foster-father of the Christ, Chaste Spouse of the Ever-Virgin Mary and Patron of the Universal Church, pray for us!

 

The Twelve Apostles, intimate and true friends of the Messiah, pray for us!

 


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